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——记省、市道德模范刘先蕊

liuxianrui

zaishangshijibajiushiniandaideshihou,sheijiayaoshiyougeshangwankuai,linlibuzhidaoyouduoxianmu!liuxianruijiushidangnianyiweiyuanjinwenmingdezhifudaitouren。danruciyoujingshangtounaodeta,jizanleshijiwanyuandecaifuhoumeiyoujixuzuoshengyi,quejieshouleyijiabinlindaobidexiangqiaozhenjinglaoyuan,yiganjiushikuai30nian。

jin30nianlai,weilejinglaoyuandelaorenmen,liuxianruijiangzijiadefangwuhezhaijididiyajileyinxing,duonianwulishouhui,quejianqilezhandi6000pingfangmidejinglaoyuan;tashiqulezuixinaidelianggeerzi,quexianhougongyangguo100duoweigugualaoren;tazijishenhuanaizheng,queguwuzheshenbianderenweiyanglaoshiyefengxianzhongsheng。

“woshigongchandangyuan,jiranjieshoujinglaoyuan,jiubuhuirangyiweilaorenshoukunan”

yongliuxianruizijidehuashuo,tashige“nengzuoshengyideren”,congshandongyunmianzhongdaoshanxilaimai,yijinmianzhongkeyizhengliangkuailaiqian,zaicongcunlishoumianhuamaidaomianshachang。bashiniandaimoqi,ganggang30chutoudetazanxiashijiwanyuandejixu,chengleyuanjinwenmingdezhifudaitouren,haijijiyaoqiujinbu,ruledang。

danzhenzhengrangliuxianruizailintongqu“chuleming”de,bushitadenenggan,ershitadexiaoshun。liuxianruijiajizhangfushangtiemadediernian,gonggongjiuyinnaoyixuetanhuanzaichuang。8nianshijian,duokuiletazaichuangqiansihou。laorenlinzhongqianlazhetadeshoushuo: “younizheiyangdehaoerxifu,wozheiyibeizimeiyoushenmeyihanle”。tadexiaoxingguangweiliuchuan,yeshiyinwei“nengrenxiaoxifu”demingsheng,congcigaibianletaderenshengguidao。

1990nian,shirenzhendangweishujilimingguangzhaodaota,quantajieshouxiangqiaozhenjinglaoyuandeyuanzhanggongzuo。congmeidangguo“guan”deliuxianruiyoudianyouyu,tadayingxianqujinglaoyuankanyikan。

jinglaoyuanpopolanlandeyuanzili,jiweigugua“wubao”laorenmunedemuguangbeihoudaizheqipan,rangliuxianruidexinyixiazirouruanxialai,tajilishujiliuxiayijuhua: “woshigongchandangyuan,jiranjieshoujinglaoyuan,jiubuhuirangyiweilaorenshoukunan。”

dangshiyuanlizhiyou7weilaoren,jinglaoyuandezhangshangmeiyouyifenqian!sheiyemeixiangdao,liuxianruijingranhaobuyouyudinachujialishijiwanyuandejixubutieyanglaoyuan,kaihuangzhongdi、zhongcai、siyangjiaqin……“laorenmenshenmeyechibushang,zheiyebushibanfa。”neishitaquanbudejixu,kemianduicaifang,taqueshuodeyundanfengqing。

zuijiankudenianyue,tayongzuzhaidiyadaikuanweilaorengaishanshenghuo

yijieshoujinglaoyuan,liuxianruiheshangtiemaliangkouzijiumanghuoqilai。tamennachujialidejixu,kaihuangzhongdi,siyangjiaqin,jinglaoyuanderiziyitiantianhaoguoqilai,laorenmendehuoshiyeyitiantiandedaogaishan。qitadewubaolaorenkandaojinglaoyuandebianhua,fenfentongguozhengguiqudaolaidaojinglaoyuan。liuxianruigangyaosongkouqi,gengdadenanguanqueqiaoranerzhi。

1998nian,guojiaweijianqingnongminfudan,shixingfeigaishui,dangdizhengfubuzaitongchouhetiliukuanxiang,jicengzhengfuyeyasuoleyidabufenjingjikaizhi,buzaibokuanjijinglaoyuan。dangdizhengfumeiyuexiabojilaorendeshenghuofeimeiyoule,jiulianpinqingdegongrengongziyemeilezheluo,jinglaoyuanzaiduxianrukunjing。

doushuowuloupianfenglianyinyu。jinglaoyuandelaofangyinnianjiushixiuchengleweifang,xieshangledadade“chai”zi。zhengfujijinglaoyuanhuadinglexinzhi,quemeiqianjianfang。yankanzhejishiweilaorenwujiakegui,yiqiandeshengyihuobanduiliuxianruishuo: “doudaolezheishanqiongshuijindedibu,cheba,haohaozuozandeshengyiyaojin。”liuxianruideaojingershanglaile: “zheixielaorenmeiermeinv,suishikenengmeirenguan。wopianbukensashou,jiushiyaorangzheixielaorenguodebiyoueryounvdelaorenhaiyaohao。”

cihouwunian,liuxianruimeiyounaguoyifenqiandegongzi,takaoshichai、jianshicaiye、zaizijiadilizhongliangzhongcaiyanghuodajia,kejiusuanyigebaichenglianggehua,haishigongyangbuleriyizengjiadelaorendeshenghuokaizhi。cishi,liuxianruiyijinghuaguanglejialisuoyoudejixu,taheairenshanglianghou,zuochuleyigerangchangrenzhijinyexiangbumingbaidejueding: nachuzuzubeibeiliuxialaidefangzihezhaijididaoxinyongshediyadaikuanyiwanyuan,tiebulaorendeshenghuo,youyitangtangdipaoquminzhengjuqingqiubokuan,zuizhongshenqingxia18wanyuan“xingguanggongcheng”xiangmukuanjianjinglaoyuan。kemeiyouzijifangchandeliuxianrui,zhidaoxianzai,yijiarenzhinengjizhezhuzaijinglaoyuandejigexiaofangjianli。

meiguoduojiu,tadeerziyaojiehunle,hunfangjiuzaijinglaoyuan。tiqiguowangdeshiqing,erxifulujuanjuanyouhaoqiyouhaoxiao,“jiehunshiniangjiapeisongwo18tiaoxinbeizi,popohongzhewoshuofangjiulejiubuhaole,xianjilaorenyong,yihouzaijinimaixinde。beiziyitiaotiaonazoule,xindedaojintianyitiaodoumeijianzhe!”

weileshengqian,liuxianruiyijiachengle“shixiangquanneng”。lifagualian、peiyaodazhen、tuinaanmo,tayangyangnadeqifangdexia。qingbuqihulirenyuan,jiazhongliangge20suichutoudeerziheerxifudouxuehuilezuofan、fengbuyifu。biedejinglaoyuanyinweijingfeijinzhangzhugejiesan,xiangqiaozhenjinglaoyuanzaineijinianzuikunnandesuiyueli,renshuquezengjiadao50duoren。

“meiyousha,youwozai,yidingbalaorenshoudehaohaode”

xianzaidelintongquxiangqiaojinglaoyuan,gongjuzhuzhe50duoweigugua“wubaohu”laoren,pingjunnianling70suiyishang,nianlingzuidadeyijing94suile,zaicijuzhuzuizhangdelaorenyijingchaoguo20nian。shenghuozaizheilide“wubao”laorenyibanyishangdouyoulongya、shiming、banshenbusui、shoujiaobubian、laonianhutudenggezhonggeyangdecanji。

meitianqingchenliudianzhong,liuxianruiqichuangdediyijianshijiushishaoshui。shuikaile,taaigesongdaolaorenmendefangjian,lailaihuihuijiudeshiduotang。bangyuanlijiweishenticanji、shenghuobunengzilidelaorenchuanyiqichuang,daitamenshangcesuo、xilian;jilaorenmenliangxueya、dazhen、chiyao;yonglunyituizhexingdongbubiandelaorensanbu、shaitaiyang;yikouyikoujiangfanweidaobunengzilidelaorenzuili;luntazhiwanbandeshihou,tazongshiheyitangzhe,yihuichuquzhuanyiquan,kanyoumeiyoushuibuzhedelaorenzaiwaibianxiazhuan,kankanyoumeiyoulaorenshangcesuo,patamenshuailepengle;xiawuyouyidiankongyushijian,jiuzuzhidajiachangqinqiang、laerhu、xiaqi……liuxianruideyitian,jinzhangsuosui,pingdanlaolei。

jihumeitian,douyouxuyaoshangyiyuandelaoren,liuxianruihelaoban、erxiyongzixingchezaizhe,huoyonglunyituizhelaorenshangyiyuan,zheiyimuzaixiangqiaojiedaolaobaixingdeyanlishichangyoudeshi,shangzhixiangqiaoweishengyuandeyuanzhang,xiazhiputongyisheng,meiyouyigebushuxitamenjiarende,yinweitamenshizheilidechangke。

cunminguanliangdedayindiankaizaijinglaoyuanxibian,takanjianliuxianruiyicicidunzaiyuanzilijilaorenmenqingxibeishiniaonongzangdebeiru,bameiyiweiguoshidelaorendoutitimianmiandisongzou,zhenpeifuta: “yigeyueji1wankuaiqian,doumeirenyuanyiganzheiyangdehuoer。jiushiqinerzi,yenanbalaorenfasongdeneimehao。”liuxianruihuidata: “meiyousha,youwozai,yidingbalaorenshoudehaohaode。”

“guledajiajiugubulexiaojia,zheiyibeiziwokongpadoufangbuxialaorenmen”

2000nian12yue6ri,zheigerizijiuxiangdaoyiyangkezailiuxianruidexinli。neiduanrizi,yuanlidelaorenxuezhencaibingzhongzhuyuan,tapaoqianpaohoudipeilaorenkanbing,zuizhonghaishimeinengwanliuzhulaorendeshengming。12yue6rishangwu,tasongzoulelaoxue,congbinyiguanpibeibukandiwanghuiganshi,taxiangdaozhengzaishengbingdeerzi,deganjinsongerzishangyiyuan。zhengjiuxindixiangzheshi,yingmianpengshangsongerziquyiyuandeche,tadajingshise,lianmangshangcheyitongqianwangyiyuan,“yijingcuoguozuijiaqiangjiuqi,laibujile”,yishengbinglengdehuasichezhetawanfenaohuidexin,yiyuandezoulangli,tajuewangdihaotaodakuqilai。

liuxianruidedaerzixinggeneixiang,neiduanshijianerzishengbing,duocijitamenshuo“bama,nimenpeiwoshangyiyuanqujianchajianchaba,wodebingpashibuhao”,erzishuoguojici,tahelaobanzongshishuodengmangwanzheizhenjiuqu。“bama,wodemingzainimenxinlizhendejiumeiyouneixielaorendemingzhongyaoma?”shoupengzheerziliuxiadeyiyan,tadexindousuile。dancaganyanleihou,jinglaoyuandeshiyiranjiezheganxialai。

liuxianruideererzishangyongzhishiyigeshenqianglizhuangyouwenhuadeqingnian,huikaigezhongnongyejixie,danyefangqilegezhongfajiazhifudejihui,zhuisuitadaojinglaoyuangongzuo,erzizaiyuanliganbaowei、dangdiangong、shaoguolu,chuwaicaigouwupin,jiesongyuanmin,meiyougongzi,quehaowuyuanyan。zheimeshanliangdexiaohuozi,quezailiangnianqian,jilaochengji,yinbinglishile。

baifarensongheifaren,zheiyangdebeitong,jielianliangci,sheinengshoudele?2011nianyuanyue,liuxianruiyinlaoleiguoduduociyundao,yiyuandezhenduanjieguoweigongjingai。hualiaoqijian,tagesanchawujiuwangjinglaoyuanpao,jigeyuedezhiliaoganggangjieshu,tajiujijihuohuodihuidaogangwei。

kanzhezheiyangpinmingdeta,sheinengxiangdaozheishiyigeganggangzaiguimenguanzouleyizaoderenni?“gudeledajiajiugubulexiaojia,zheixielaoren,jiushiwohuozhedejingshenzhizhu,zheiyibeizi,wokongpadoufangbuxiatamen。”

“wozheibeizizuikuiqianderen,jiushierxifule。”ererxifulujuanjuanjiadaoshangjiadingzhehendadeshehuiyali。zaitazuoyueziqijian,liuxianruimeiyousihouguoerxiyitian,yimenxinsipuzaineixielaorenshenshang。yitian,xiadayu,tajizhequbanglaorenguanchuanghu,jiaoxiayihuashuaidaole,shenhuailiujiadeerxitingdaoxiangshengbendaotashenbian,feilidifuqita,haobuyouyubeiqitadiediezhuangzhuangquleyiyuan,tapinganle,erxiqueliuchanle。

gangkaishi,erxiduijinglaoshiyeyouxiepaichi,tacengjingshuoguo: “popobuaiwomen,buaizheigejia,shenzhibuaisunzi,dantaweishenmehuiaizheixiesumeipingshengdelaoren?”kanzhetaduilaorenmenwuweibuzhideguanhuai,kanzhetarijianshuailaodeshentihewuyandefuchu,erximanmanmingbailetadepopo。zailiuxianruideganzhaoxia,zaimeiyouyifenqiangongzideqingkuangxia,erxiyiganjiushishijinian,rujinyichengweitadejiebanren。

congjieshouxiangqiaojinglaoyuandaoxianzai,liuxianruidailingjiarenrangwuerwunvde100duoweigugualaorenshengyouzhaogu、siyouzunyan,taxianhouhuode“diwujieshanxishengxiaolaoaiqindaodemofan”“quanguowuhaojiating”“quanguozuimeijiating”dengrongyuchenghao。30nianlai,pingzhetahejiarenmomowuwendejianshou,shixiangqiaojinglaoyuanchengweilintongweiyichuanchengxialaidegongbanjinglaoyuan,chengweilintonggugua“wubaohu”renshengdezuiweishuxindexingfujiayuan。